Part of the problem is that bodyswap ought to be a great way for them to understand each other, but they're both being so obsessed with its impact on them personally that there is a signal failure to engage with "interesting, this is how the world treats me when I am X" in ways that they might actually find useful for the relationship ;-)
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on 2015-07-16 07:39 pm (UTC)